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Let first-borns breathe, stop choking them with family responsibilities, says Simi

The mother of one emphasized the importance of allowing these individuals the freedom to pursue their own paths and make choices without being encumbered by the undue pressure often associated with being the first-born.

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Nigerian singer, Simi, has urged families to reconsider the weight of responsibility often placed on the shoulders of the first-born child.

In a statement she made on her Twitter page on Wednesday, she emphasized that being the eldest does not translate to an obligation to carry the entire family’s load.

Simi advocated a shift in mindset, urging families to let their first-borns breathe and embrace their individual life’s journeys.

The singer candidly pointed out that many eldest children, despite their familial responsibilities, might harbor feelings of resentment.

Simi shed light on the unspoken struggles faced by these individuals, suggesting that constant pressure can strain their relationships with family members.

In her appeal, she called attention to the emotional toll, noting that even simple interactions, such as text messages, can trigger panic attacks in first-borns who feel overwhelmed but are often hesitant to express their struggles openly.

The mother of one emphasized the importance of allowing these individuals the freedom to pursue their own paths and make choices without being encumbered by the undue pressure often associated with being the first-born.

Acknowledging the potential strain on family dynamics, Simi tactfully conveyed that it is not uncommon for first-borns to develop strained relationships with their families due to the burden placed on them.

Despite their inner turmoil, many may feel obligated to suppress their true feelings, thereby creating a facade of normalcy.

Her appeal challenges age-old expectations and encourages families to redefine their dynamics, fostering an environment where the first-born can thrive without the weight of disproportionate responsibility.

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