Nollywood actress Bukky Fagbuyi has shared a personal and unsettling account of her journey in the entertainment industry, revealing the dark side of her rise to prominence.
While reflecting on her path to success, she addressed the persistent issue of sexual harassment in Nollywood, which she described as both a thriving and deeply troubling space for aspiring female actors.
In an interview monitored by Per Second News on Biola Bayo’s TV, Fagbuyi said marriage remains a beautiful institution, but she advised women not to chase it blindly.
“You must not search. Wait and pray,” she said, urging women to prioritize peace of mind over pressure.
Turning her focus to Nollywood, Fagbuyi did not mince words about the challenges women face behind the glamour.
She disclosed that more than once, industry figures had threatened her success if she refused to offer sexual favours or enter into relationships with them.
“Not one, not two people told me that if they didn’t have their way with me or date me, I would go nowhere,” she said.
These shocking revelations revealed what many actresses, especially the up and coming ones described as systemic nature of harassment in the Nigerian film industry.
Despite these obstacles, Fagbuyi pressed forward in her career, crediting veteran actor Muyiwa Ademola as one of the first to give her a chance in the industry.
She described him as a gateway figure in her early journey, and also highlighted the unwavering support she received from fellow actress Toyosi Adesanya.
“She was very supportive of my career,” Fagbuyi said, praising Adesanya for her generosity and encouragement.
Her experience with these two mentors, she explained, helped her stand firm in the face of exploitation.
“I am not a saint,” she admitted. “But I would only do what I want to do if it pleases me. Nobody can force me to do what I never wanted to do.”
Her words echo the internal strength required to survive in a space where women are often targeted simply for existing.
Fagbuyi used the opportunity to call for greater compassion and empowerment for women, both within and beyond the entertainment sector.
“Women give birth to nations,” she said passionately. “We should be given space to thrive, to be loved, and to be respected.”
She lamented the societal tendency to judge and diminish women’s voices instead of uplifting them.
While she has found success, her story is a cautionary tale for the many young women who dream of breaking into Nollywood.
She believes that more reforms, transparency, and protections are needed if the industry is to become truly inclusive and safe for all talents.
As she continues to build her career, Fagbuyi remains hopeful that the future will be different for the next generation.
“It’s not just about fame,” she said, adding “It’s about knowing who you are and refusing to be broken by people who see you only as what they can take from you.”
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